Dating after divorce can be exciting, nerve-wracking, and everything in between.
It’s a chance to start fresh, meet new people, and rediscover yourself. But for many women, the prospect of navigating the dating scene, especially without alcohol, can feel daunting. Certified Alcohol Freedom Coach, Julie Lively of Living Lively and Free, offers tips and support for women who are dating after divorce and choosing to do so alcohol-free.
It’s really unfair, but many people mix dating with alcohol as a total given. Drinks at a bar, wine with dinner – it’s often seen as a social lubricant, a way to relax and ease the nerves. But if you’re choosing to date without alcohol, it can feel like you’re a fish out of water. How can you hold strong and ground yourself when you’re also in your 40’s, 50’s and 60’s and dating?
First Of All, Try to Match With Sober Partners From the Get Go.
Choosing to date sober offers several benefits (as you definitely know if you are here!)
- Clarity: You can make clearer decisions and get a more accurate sense of the other person.
- Confidence: You’ll build confidence in your ability to connect with others without relying on alcohol.
- Authenticity: You can present your true self, without the mask that alcohol can sometimes create.
- Safety: You’ll be more aware of your surroundings and better able to protect yourself.
Tips for Dating Sober:
- Be Upfront: Let your date know early on that you don’t drink. Most people will be understanding and respectful.
- Suggest Alcohol-Free Activities: Plan dates that don’t revolve around alcohol, such as coffee dates, walks in the park, museums, or concerts.
- Focus on Connection: Concentrate on getting to know the other person and building a genuine connection.
- Have an Exit Strategy: If you’re feeling uncomfortable or pressured to drink, have a plan for leaving the date early.
- Find Your Tribe: Connect with other sober women who are dating. Sharing experiences and supporting each other can make a big difference.
Building Confidence and Connection
Dating without alcohol is about building genuine connections based on shared values and interests. It’s about presenting your authentic self and embracing who you are. It might feel challenging at first, but with practice and the right support, you can navigate the dating scene with confidence and clarity.
Try Alcohol Freedom Coaching with Julie Lively of Living Lively and Free
Julie Lively understands the unique challenges women face when dating after divorce, especially when choosing to do so without alcohol. She offers personalized coaching programs that empower women to build confidence, navigate social situations, and create healthy relationships.
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